few little的区别 要过年了，那些洋媳妇洋女婿们有多紧张？都去发帖求助了哈哈！(3)

不要 在他的家人面前和他卿卿我我 。

I’ve never seen my husband’s family members hug, kiss or even hold hands in front of us. Additionally, it will only reinforce the unfortunate stereotype that all Western women are easy or seductresses.→ 在亲戚面前拥抱接吻什么的，会给他们一种西方女人不矜持甚至不检点 的感觉。

3. Defer to his family, especially the elders.

多顺着 他的家人，尤其是。

Chinese families prize filial behavior and deference to elders. That means being more passive — let his family set the schedule and be in charge. If they plan meals or have outings or other activities, go along and be a good guest (such as, being the last to sit at the table). Avoid complaining in public, even about annoyances like smoking (try, instead, to resolve issues with the help of your boyfriend). They will appreciate you for this.→ 他们家人要安排什么活动，老老实实参加就行。不要自作主张，不要公开抱怨，做个有礼貌的好客人。

4. Bring photos to share.

可以带些照片 去分享给他们看。

They’re a great way to break the ice with his family and make a personal connection. Things were pretty tense that first Chinese New Year I spent with my Chinese husband — but when I brought out the photos of my family and vacations, suddenly his parents began talking with me. It was a real turning point.→ 带点你自己家人过节的照片 给他们看，化解初见的尴尬冷场有奇效！

5. Don’t talk about your relationship with his family, unless they ask you.

除非他们主动问起，否则不要 主动谈你和你男票的感情状况 。

I doubt they will — love is still an embarrassing, highly personal topic in China.

6. Don’t talk about where you might live in the future.

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