few little的区别 要过年了，那些洋媳妇洋女婿们有多紧张？都去发帖求助了哈哈！(2)

当然啦，肯定要准备礼物给他们哒！（谢谢大家给我各种礼物的建议~）

But I was wondering what other advice you might have — specifically, what should I do to make the visit go smoothly? I really could use some help! Thanks!

但是呢，想问问你们还有别的建议不？尤其是……我该怎样才能把这趟行程顺利进行下去？真的需要各位的帮助啊！感谢感谢！

看这姑娘着急的……这还不算正式的中国媳妇呢，就如此看重这次过年，妹纸你有心啦~

Kelly妹纸的求助信 是发在一个博客 上的。

而这个博客的博主不是别人，正是咱们之前介绍过好几次的著名洋媳妇——乔斯林 (Jocelyn Eikenburg)。

▲Jocelyn

乔斯林的老公是中国人，她如今也在中国长住，开了个名为洋媳妇谈中国的博客，分享了许多和中国亲友相处的趣事儿。

▲乔斯林的博客洋媳妇谈中国

这次，对于Kelly妹纸的求助，乔斯林也以过来人的身份给了一些贴心的建议 。

她是这样说的——

Every Chinese family, obviously, will be different, and react differently to you — so I can’t guarantee marriage for you too. But there are some things you can do to improve your chances of making a smashing first impression:

显然啦，每个中国家庭都不尽相同，对你的到来也会有不同反应——所以我也没法保证你能和他顺利走进婚姻的殿堂。但是呢，还是有些小技巧，可以帮助你提升几率、获得不错的第一印象——

1. Gifts are a must for the family, as you already know.

一定要给他家人准备礼物 ！是的~这一点你已经提到了。

It’s the best way to create goodwill from the first Ni Hao (after all, Chinese people tend to show their feelings through indirect means, such as gifts, so it’s a language they understand). I’d follow the gift-giving suggestions I’ve laid out, leaning towards vitamins for his parents and grandparents. Find out what other relatives will be present and bring something for them, too.→ 可以给他的父母和爷爷奶奶准备维生素 一类的，也要带点儿别的礼物送给其他亲戚。

2. Avoid physical contact with your Chinese boyfriend in front of his family.

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